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Your purpose has been hardcoded into you since before you were born.
But often, that purpose lies dormant as you try to navigate the world and its many systems. Systems that are inherently designed to strip you of who you are so that you fit inside the status quo. It gets buried beneath the many insurmountable layers of obligation and expectation.
Some people come across their purpose early in life, but for many, it takes a truly challenging chapter or breakthrough moment to activate us. To crack us so far open that we can no longer live out of alignment with our deepest truth and can no longer function in this world unless we're willing to do the work necessary to get clear on who we're here to be.
For many, the idea of purpose is frustrating because it feels elusive and impossible to pin down. Or, we're led to believe that purpose means something grand in scale and scope, such as becoming globally celebrated and recognized, changing the course of history, or solving world problems like curing cancer or eradicating poverty.
But purpose is actually straightforward:
Show up, be you, and do what you feel called to do.
There’s no scope or scale of purpose that’s better or more important than another; there’s only what you feel called to do, how you feel called to do it, and where you feel called to show up.
The callings and expressions of your purpose change with the times and as life shapes you, but the seed is ever-present. It’s always been there since the moment you took your first breath. After working with hundreds of clients since 2011, we’ve discovered ways to activate your purpose without the necessity of hitting rock bottom or having your life come completely undone.
There’s a simple formula for stepping into our purpose, and it’s accessible to all of us:
Here’s what to expect from this program:
Align. We’re always in alignment; the question is, with what? In order to live our purpose, we have to show up as our most fully expressed selves and live in total alignment with what feels right and true for us. But that’s not as easy as it sounds because we have years and years of subconscious programming, limiting beliefs, fears, traumas, unresolved grief, and unprocessed emotions that are holding us back from knowing our truest selves and living on the frequency of our desires.
In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and exercises that will bring you into alignment, including:
Activate. When you’re aligned and showing up in your fullest expression, aspects of your deepest and highest self to open up and become available, allowing your purpose to reveal itself. But it’s more than just clarity about what our purpose is; it’s about energetics and embodiment. Our purpose doesn’t become active in our being until we operate from the frequency of our desires, trust in ourselves and our inner knowing, and allow our legacy and vision to lead us forward.
In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and exercises that will activate your purpose, including:
Actualize. Once we’re clear on our purpose and how it desires expression, we have to actualize it through a very specific type of action that goes against much of what we’ve been taught about manifestation and goal achievement. Actualize means “to make real.” In our context, that means taking your purpose from an idea and making it a reality in your life right now. Collapsing time and no longer waiting on external circumstances to change before you can access the opportunities, experiences, and positive influence you desire.
In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and exercises that will allow you to actualize your purpose and full potential without fear, pressure, or self-sabotage, including:
You'll also get access to our bonus module:
Amplify. Once we’ve activated and actualized our purpose, a surge of creative energy can drive us to launch and grow what we call a Channel for Change™. These are the mediums through which we share our story, have the important conversations we’re here to have, start movements, redefine industry standards, or share our work with a wider audience, whatever that work might be. In this bonus module, you’ll learn about the different Channels for Change, how to give your legacy project more reach and impact, and how to confidently use your voice and energetic frequency to catalyze transformations all around.
In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and experiences that will allow you to amplify your purpose expression and legacy projects, including:
This program guides you through the critical conversations necessary to understanding and living your purpose, but this work isn’t woo-woo or rooted in magical thinking.
It’s a tangible, step-by-step process that guides you in better knowing yourself, uncovering your purpose, and person you’re here to be and the work you’re here to do a tangible reality, regardless of circumstances.
We also use process work (these sessions are much like a guided visualization) with a focus on clearing out trauma, grief, stored memories, and stuck emotions on a cellular level.
When you sign up for Actualize, you’ll also get these powerful bonuses:
Enneagram Workshop
Understanding your personality type gives you a framework to better align yourself with who you’re here to be. The Enneagram is a powerful tool to identify your unhealthy fixations, core wounding, and key motivations, allowing you to break free from the limits of your personality and bring out the best in yourself and your work. Beyond understanding your own personality type, this workshop will help you better understand the people around you, allowing you to stop interpreting or taking things personally and freeing up your energy for more important activities and aligned relationships.
Human Design Workshop
When you understand your unique energetic wiring, you can begin making aligned decisions and moving through the world in a way that expands your soul rather than draining and depleting your energy. Human Design is a holistic system rooted in astrology principles that helps usunderstand ourselves and ourpurpose in life. What you’ll learn from this system will help you in discovering and owning your natural talents and qualities, allowing you to more easefully decondition from who the world told you to be so that you can start operating from your true self and pursue your calling.
Navigating Systems Training
We understand it’s not presently safe for everyone to live their fullest expression, and we can’t have a productive conversation about living our purpose without understanding systems and how they condition, shape, limit, and harm us. In this bonus training, you’ll learn how systems work, how to identify them, and how to navigate them without burning out or losing yourself. Systems thinking will give you a whole new lens through which to view the world, other people, and yourself, allowing you to have a greater impact through your purpose work.
Misunderstood Masterclass
This class will help you understand why you're being misunderstood and how to stop taking it personally so that you're free to express yourself fully in all areas of your life. Heal your wounds and release your fears around judgment or having your actions misinterpreted while learning to embrace the parts of yourself and your vision that are most frequently misunderstood, accessing your greatest gifts in the process. You’ll also develop the skill to turn the people who misunderstand you into your biggest supporters without changing who you are or how you show up—just by being you!
You’ll also get our select Ebook Bundle!
We’re also gifting you PDF copies of our targeted books, including Thread the Storyline, What Really Happened?, and Cultivating Confidence. These books provide supplemental reading and resources that support the conversations we’re having in Actualize.
Your purpose has been hardcoded into you since before you were born.
Are you ready to uncover yours?
Stephenie’s course is a life-changer. My advice–don’t even think twice, sign up now!
With Stephenie’s guidance, motivation, and insights, I’ve made changes that have completely transformed my life. Stephenie’s program has helped me figure out where my life was out of harmony, define what I am most passionate about (what “lights a fire in me”), and then set manageable goals to help me achieve my dreams.
People around me have noticed how “happy” I’ve been lately and I can 100% say that I have never felt more happy, authentic, confident, and healthy as I do now. I am so grateful to Stephenie for helping me begin this journey of self discovery.
Jennifer M.
You have a way of helping me find my way back to myself, and getting me back on track.
I finally feel confident enough in myself, trusting myself fully, and I have you to thank for that. You seriously have a life-saving gift. You have a way of helping me find my way back to myself, and getting me back on track/aligned. And part of that is facing into the not so pretty stuff… the fear, anger, judgment, resentment, doubt, hopelessness… but also beyond that, and reconnecting with my truest desires. It feels so good to NOT be afraid of my own dark, ugly stuff, and also to fully own up to what I want most and working towards it. You really help me feel like not only that anything is possible, but also empowered to work towards it and trust myself to navigate it.
K.M.
This was deeply personal work but Stephenie brings a tremendous presence...
This was deeply personal work but Stephenie brings a tremendous presence to her coaching that provided a safe and accepting environment to work in. I can’t recommend her highly enough. Stephenie dug deep so we could focus on the real sticking points, came up with a plan for moving forward, and was there by phone and e-mail to support me. In particular, the ideas we generated weren’t just “do this/ do that”.
Stephenie went deeper and we identified ways to foster and nurture creativity… I was also blown away by the acupressure Stephenie brought in. It was a simple and highly effective method.
Barry S.
She will sort out all those crazy thoughts in your brain and set you on the right track.
The best part is that, by working with Stephenie, I have been able to overcome my own mental blocks so that I now feel so much more in-tune with my own creative flow. I’m no longer just sitting around wanting to create and do something but unsure if that’s “right” or good enough, or creating blocks by telling myself “I don’t know how to do that” or “I can’t do that”. Now I’m just letting my own creative spirit flow. I’m freely expressing my ideas… and myself… without all the hesitation.
If you’re really wanting to create something new, discover your true passions, or simply just feel more reconnected to your true self but you just can’t seem to figure out how to get there, then Stephenie is your go-to gal.
She will definitely sort out all those crazy thoughts in your brain and set you on the right track so you can create your own joy in your life that you so desperately crave. Stephenie, thank you so much for helping me through this process! I am eternally grateful!
Jennifer T.
I felt like she understood where I was coming from because she had been there.
Before I started working with Stephenie I felt completely lost. I knew I was meant to do something greater but I just didn’t know which direction I should go. I had so many ideas and was afraid of making the wrong decision. This unknowing and fear really led me to feeling trapped. I needed help pinpointing what my true purpose was and the things I was truly passionate about. Enter Stephenie.
I have to say I’m truly happy I listened to my intuition because not only did Stephenie help pinpoint my passions, but she also helped me get started on creating my business. She is someone who truly cares about her clients’ well-being and success. In between our scheduled calls she would check-in to see if I needed support, and provided me with the resources I needed. I really appreciated her experiences and knowledge in getting through this time of uncertainty.
I now know what my passions and purpose are in life and am excited to continue on this path. I have the clarity I so desired before I started this journey. I feel free because I have a deeper sense of self and purpose. I would completely recommend Stephenie for anyone who wants to feel a sense of freedom, purpose, and the desire to live your best life.
Adlin C.
It took about 24 hours, and then it was like a switch was flipped in my brain...
It took about 24 hours, and then it was like a switch was flipped in my brain and I was ME again. I've done regular therapy, hypnotherapy, and CBT, but this moved me through some things so much faster. Honestly, I don't think this download would have been possible without your process work. That's when I started getting my brain back. 10/10 will be doing again.
Sarah H.
Stephenie just has a way of making you feel like she gets it.
It is hard for me to put into words just what a transformative experience it has been (and continues to be) to work with Stephenie! I not only felt invisible, but I had serious doubts of I could even make a difference in the world, period. I’d ask myself “How do I have anything decent to contribute?” But like many of us experience, there was a breaking point in my life that basically had me saying NO more! This is when I decided that I was going take the risk and CHOOSE to not run anymore and to go to the next level in all areas of my life.
Stephenie just has a way of making you feel like she gets it. I strongly believe it is because of her own lived experience with trauma and having to reorient to everything as she knew it, that gives her a unique perspective. Stephenie’s coaching style are not only direct, but simultaneously gentle and kind. Furthermore, she customizes the support based on the goals you want to achieve. For example, the Acupressure sessions were a huge turning point for me and Stephenie guided me every step of the way!
I can tell you that every tear, angry outburst and rant, and the belly laughs, all within the same 10 minutes at times, have been absolutely worth it! I have been able to make more progress and changes in certain areas though working with Stephenie, then I have in the last decade.
Nara D.
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